Show that you are thankful.
Whenever your partner does something for you, show your gratitude and thank her. It’s good manners but so easy to forget because we get lost in our own world or swallowed up in technology. Couples who show gratitude to each other are more likely to stay together.
Be affectionate.
When you see your partner, give her a warm hug. It’s a simple routine to get in to and she will feel good every time she sees you. Physical affection leads to greater satisfaction in romantic relationships, so take the time to show your partner that you are happy to see her.
Support her.
Even if you’re in a committed relationship, you still have your own life. You don’t need to merge into one entity as that would be unhealthy. So, whatever your partner is trying to accomplish in her life, support her. You don’t need to live in competition. A relationship with mutual support is much healthier and more fulfilling.
Focus on communication.
Communication is the most important factor in making a relationship work. This means putting down your phone and listening properly. Showing understanding diffuses negative reactions and allows you to communicate as adults. Share your own feelings as well. If you’re honest about how you’re feeling and what you’re thinking, it’ll make the relationship much healthier, and you’ll know exactly where you stand.
Don’t become too needy.
If you become too needy with your partner, stop going out with your friends, and focus solely on your relationship, you will eventually become unattractive to her. It’s important for both partners in a relationship to have a life of their own. So, be sure to maintain your own goals, hobbies, and friends, and you’ll both be much happier.
Have fun.
When you get deep into a relationship, it’s easy to forget to have fun. Doing boring stuff together as well as partying all night is part of creating a strong bond. It’s important not to allow your relationship to develop into being solely about nights in and saving for the future. Add some fun and excitement into your relationship with some sex toys and in particular a masturbator, this will help spice things up and bind you together.
Be spontaneous sometimes.
Relationships can get predictable, but this can get boring. Tiny, simple surprises can brighten things up. This will help to keep your relationship away from the mundane and take you back to the early days of dating when everything was surprising and new.
Make plans.
Without plans, your relationship will stagnate. If you’re at the beginning of a relationship, you want to live in the moment, but as time goes on, you will need some longer-term goals. It might be planning a holiday, or developing an online business together, or it might mean starting a family. The goals shift as your relationship develops.
Respect differences.
Having differences can be a good thing, at least up to a point. But sometimes, those differences can become annoying when we get to know each other better. Tell yourself that differences can be positive and negative traits are rarely completely negative. When you can acknowledge your differences and understand them, you have learned to respect them.